NICE GUYS FINISH FIRST
I read many different articles across the net and magazines about nice guys finishing last, this is a most untrue statement. many consider nice guys as boring and predictable,not true, you just ran into a boring and predictable guy,nice guys can be as exciting as anyone when given a chance,of course here is where the problem lies.Alot of Nice guys lack flash.
FLASH? you say, yes,most nice guys are considered to go well and beyond to do things to attract the girl,buying her things,taking her to special places, doing all kinds of nifty things to make her happy(women do you not want to be made happy?) whereas the typical Bad BOY, sits and does nothing,this generally turns into your couch warming guy who doesn't amount to much later on, you know, the ones who women complain about and say where all the nice guys at? but they have, the flash, its like kinda a glow so to speak, cover candy, it looks good on the outside but has no substanence on the inside. they do what it takes to get a woman and generally will dump them when they get boring to them,thats what stumps the Nice Guy as he would have stayed by your side thru thick and thin.
Nice Guys realize this, if you let a woman run over you,that makes you seem weak, in terms of that,yes you will finish that,be a man,but be yourself too, thats what I think most women want you to be, be a man, you can still be nice to her,have fun,be exciting and not treat her like garbage at the same time.
any REAL woman, before you go chasing MR Bad Boy, you'd better start asking about your self worth, do you feel you deserve to get roses? be treated to dinner?have nice things done to you and for you?talk to you like a human being? then wake up! a Bad Boy will not do that for you forever, in fact the party stops after hes got what he wants from you. Nice guy pay attention,dont give this girl a second chance,she made her decision the first time around and got her answer, now she realizes I want a nice guy. you be yourself, there are plenty of woman who appreciate and want to love good men.
is a Nice Guy sexy? most will not seem so on the surface, as I say, they might lack the flash. are they attractive? depends on what the woman likes,alot are,but because some women refuse to take a second look they never know. women need to stop playing the game of challenge,Nice guys are not considered much because they are not a challenge, they want someone who is hard to get,the problem is once they finish playing this game with the bad boy they will discover most times he was not the guy I wanted,what did you want? you wanted the nice guy with a few of the bad boy traits, you didnt want to be treated like mud now did you? thats what you got.
so in this respect, Nice guys finish first,and alot of women go thru alot trying to get gold from a bad boy and only get fools gold,fake!, Nice Guy if you find a TRUE WOMAN, that cares truly about herself,knows how she wants to be treated and how she doesnt and willing to communciate to you,and you be yourself and not some fake ass bad boy, then you will ALWAYS finish first, dont worry about women searching for fakes, move on as there is always someone for you.
